Domestic violence, at epidemic level, can be financial, too

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October was domestic violence awareness and prevention month across the country and here in Greenwich. Domestic violence occurs when one partner intimidates, manipulates or threatens the other in order to establish dominance. Domestic abuse can be emotional, sexual, verbal, physical, as well as financial.

Domestic violence is at an epidemic level in the United States. According to the Center for Disease Control, one in four women and one in seven men will experience physical violence by an intimate partner in their lifetime. Last year, YWCA Greenwich Domestic Abuse Services answered more than 4,100 hotline calls — an average of 11 calls a day — from people, overwelmingly women, who are in need of help. They are from all walks of life, education levels, and economic status, and race, ethnic or religious backgrounds.

While most people think only of physical abuse when they consider domestic violence, financial abuse is largely overlooked in the dialogue about domestic violence. According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, financial abuse is experienced by 94 to 99 percent of domestic violence survivors and occurs across all socio-economic, educational, racial and ethnic groups. Yet, according to the Allstate Foundation, 78 percent of Americans have not heard of financial abuse as a dimension of domestic violence.

That’s why the Allstate Foundation is raising awareness about financial abuse through their annual Purple Purse Campaign. The purse is a metaphor for women’s power, and purple is the color of domestic abuse.

Allstate’s research demonstrates the lack of understanding and impact of financial abuse:

  • One in five (22 percent) Americans say they know someone who has been the victim of financial abuse by their spouse or partner.
  • Eight percent say they have personally been the victim of financial abuse. This abuse is most common among those who have been separated or divorced (37 percent), among single mothers (40 percent) and is higher among African-Americans (22 percent) than White non-Hispanics (11 percent) or Hispanics (13 percent).
  • Respondents say financial abuse is the least likely (3 percent) to be recognized by an outsider, and the least understood (42 percent) form of abuse when asked about the different types of abuse inherent to domestic violence (physical, sexual, emotional and financial abuse).
  • Less than one in four (39 percent) say they have taken steps to protect themselves from financial abuse, including just one-third (33 percent) of Millennial women and less than half (45 percent) of Hispanic women.

If you consider that an abuser wants absolute power and control in their relationships, then it is not difficult to understand why making the victim financially dependent would be a way of keeping the victim from leaving.

According to the Connecticut Coalition Against Domestic Violence, financial abuse takes many forms:

  • Forbidding the victim to work or attend school
  • Sabotaging employment opportunities by giving the victim a black eye or other visible injury prior to an important meeting
  • Jeopardizing employment by stalking or harassing the victim at the workplace
  • Denying access to a vehicle or damaging the vehicle so that the victim cannot get to work
  • Sabotaging educational opportunities by destroying class assignments
  • Withholding money or giving “an allowance”
  • Not allowing the victim access to bank accounts
  • Hiding family assets
  • Running up debt in the victim’s name

The long-term impact of financial abuse can be devastating to a victim and a victim’s children. McKinsey & Co. estimates that violence against women costs about $4.9 billion in the United States annually. Seventy percent of this comes from direct medical costs, 15 percent from lost productivity, and 15 percent from lost earnings over women’s lifetimes. In response, Allstate has developed a set of tools and information called “Moving Ahead Through Financial Management,” which educates and empowers victims to be financially self-sufficient. The program includes:

  • Strategies for addressing the complex financial and safety challenges of ending a relationship with an abusive partner.
  • Information on how to protect personal and financial safety in an abusive relationship and after leaving an abusive relationship.
  • Methods for dealing with the misuse of financial records.
  • Tools to help people of all incomes and earning power work toward long-term financial empowerment, including budgeting tools and step-by-step planners.

If you suspect that you are a victim of financial or any other form of abuse, please call your local domestic abuse provider or the YWCA Greenwich hotline at (203) 622-0003 and review the Allstate materials here.  Both the YWCA domestic abuse services and the Allstate financial empowerment tools are 100 percent free.

Mary Lee Kiernan is President and CEO of the YWCA in Greenwich.

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